Homeward Bound with Full Hearts

2 days to go…

After the most incredible few days, we’re on our way home with full hearts (and legs a bit worse for wear from all the dancing). Dublin has this magic about it that makes you want to sing, laugh, and soak up every moment… and we did just that!!

At one point, a couple of strangers came up to us and said, “What’s the secret to such a happy marriage?” I was a bit taken aback (you just assume no one’s paying attention), but it’s honestly one of the nicest compliments I’ve ever received. Not because there’s a secret formula, but maybe because a connection like ours feels rare these days and it feels rewarding to know the hard work and constant compromises pays off. Truthfully, we’ve worked hard to improve how we communicate and understand each other, especially over the past year. But having fun together? That’s always been our thing. Dan knows how to make people laugh, how to lift a room, and I’ve always loved that we absorb each other’s happiness. He knows me inside out, good, bad and ugly and still somehow keeps me feeling optimistic and positive in most situations.

Spending this time together has been so needed… it’s made me realise just how much joy Dan brings into my life, and how no one else even comes close. That thought is bittersweet with everything ahead, but it also makes me excited for what’s to come. If there’s anyone to take on life’s curveballs with, it’s him.

I’m also feeling really grateful for my Irish family, who never fail to remind me how kind and thoughtful people can be. Being around them always fills my cup and gives me that sense of home, no matter how far apart we’ve been.

Now we’re heading back to our three babies (yes, Douglas counts). Dan’s already talking about making these next two days all about the girls and what they need. We had a few emotional chats about the kids while we were away. It’s clear how much they are his world. They’re his driving force and the air he breathes, but also his soft spot, and this time apart will be really hard for him, just as it will be for them.

For now, I’m trying not to think too much about what’s coming and focus on what’s here. A few more precious days with my person, soaking up all the laughter, love, and chaos that comes with this little life we’ve built.