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An Open Letter to my Bedroom Floor
Dear Bedroom Floor, I owe you an apology. Possibly several. You’ve been my landing pad and my dumping ground, my silent witness and occasional toe-stubber. You’ve carried the weight of laundry piles (both clean and suspiciously not), the sprawl of half-packed bags, shoes I swore I’d put away, and me.. sitting cross-legged with wet cheeks,…
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An Open Letter to the Woman in Her 30s Who’s Just Been Diagnosed With ADHD
Hi my friend, Take a breath. A big one. Because what just happened.. hearing the words “you have ADHD” as a grown woman.. is not small. It’s the kind of sentence that lands in your chest like a quiet earthquake. Nothing looks different on the outside, but inside, everything’s shifted. A hundred puzzle pieces just…
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Birthday Eve reflections
Tomorrow I turn 33. And as always, the birthday blues have made their quiet entrance… Birthdays have never been just a day for me. There’s something about this moment.. standing at the edge of a new age that makes me spiral. What have I overcome this year? Who am I now? Why do I still forget to…
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Healing Out Loud (Even When No One’s Watching)
People notice when you start changing your life. At first, they comment on the visible stuff.. the way your arms are more defined, how your skin’s glowing, how you suddenly seem lighter. And it’s lovely. Really lovely. (Even if you don’t quite know how to accept it without feeling blush.) But then, once in a while,…
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You Are Not Who They Say You Are
It’s a rare child-free night… quiet, still, the kind of silence that feels like a deep breath. Tomorrow, I’m photographing a big, beautiful wedding, but tonight, I’ve got time to just be. No one asking for snacks, no laundry calling my name, no Roblox background noise. Just me and the sudden realisation that when we finally…
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Love at Long Distance: The Joys, Juggles & Lessons of Loving Across Continents
If you’d told me a few years ago that I’d be in a long-distance marriage, parenting solo while my husband lived in Kenya… I probably would’ve laughed, then cried, then laughed again (because that’s my coping strategy). But here we are. He took a dream job abroad. I stayed back with our two girls, running…
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Half a year Apart, But Closer Than Ever. A story of growth, grit, grace and an unnecessarily early alarm clock
It’s been nearly half a year since Dan left for Kenya. Nearly six months since I felt his gentle kiss on my cheek as he left for his airport pick up and nearly six months since I felt every part of me stretch between pride and heartbreak. Six months since we stepped into this strange,…
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I met my younger self for a coffee today…
She rushed in. Flustered, cheeks pink from the cold, or maybe from the panic of being late. I don’t even need to ask; she’s already launching into an excuse, layering it with just enough detail to sound convincing. Traffic. A last-minute errand. Something out of her control. But I know the truth. “It’s okay,” I…
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Finding Our New Life: A Journey to Kenya – Part 1
I’ve been lousy at keeping up with writing about Dan’s new adventure. Not because I don’t care, not because it hasn’t been on my mind every single day, but because I’ve come to a place where writing happens when I want it to, not when I have to. And honestly, I like it better this way. So, here we…
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A birthday letter to Erin
Happy 9th birthday, my miracle girl. My firstborn, my heart in human form. From the moment I first held you in my arms, I knew you were special. You were the start of everything. The beginning of this incredible journey of motherhood. You are my apple, not far from my tree, and yet, entirely your…
The Bakers Adventures
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