Tag: travelling
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Life in the In-Between
It feels like he’s been gone forever, even though it’s not even been a week. His side of the bed already doesn’t smell like him, and his clothes, once rotating endlessly between the laundry and radiator, are slowly disappearing back into his cupboard. I caught myself sniffing one of his jumpers earlier like some lovesick…
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Embracing Change and Building Connection
Change. It’s one of those words that feels heavy, isn’t it? We talk about it like it’s this mountain we need to climb, often focusing on everything we aren’t doing to support our goals. But when was the last time we stopped to ask what we are doing that doesn’t serve us? Instead of always thinking, What do I…
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Finding My Flow: Day One as a Solo Parent
The day started with getting the girls to breakfast club… something I’m patting myself on the back for because, let’s be honest, mornings are not our strong suit. Success, in my world, means reasonably brushed hair, half-ironed clothes, clean teeth, and something vaguely nutritious in their bellies… all achieved without shouting. It’s rare but oh,…
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Goodbye for Now, But Not Forever
Tuesday night will go down as one of the hardest we’ve faced as parents. At 3am, Erin woke in a complete panic that Daddy had left. And of course, he had. She was inconsolable, sobbing in my arms for two straight hours. She’s my emotional twin, bless her, drowning in feelings so big they threaten…
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The Countdown is Over
I woke up this morning to an empty side of the bed and the sudden realisation that my soulmate has set off on his adventure. My heart is bursting with pride and excitement for him, knowing how much he’s earned this, how long he’s waited, and how tirelessly he’s worked without a single complaint. Dan’s…
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Drinks and Deep Thoughts
3 days to go… It’s nearly midday, and I’m still in bed. A rare occurrence. Somehow, I’ve dodged a hangover, despite how much fun we had last night. I genuinely couldn’t tell you the last time I stayed up late, let my hair down, and actually wanted to drink. Life is so busy, and rest often feels…
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Dublin, Daughters, and Dan’s Departure
4 days to go… It’s day 4, and reality is starting to sink in—not just for me, but for the kids too. The girls woke up this morning full of emotions, which is no surprise given the ticking clock on Dan’s departure. My mum stayed over last night as Dan and I had an early…
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The Calm Before the Storm (Or Is It?)
5 Days to Go… We’re five days out from Dan’s departure, and it still hasn’t fully hit me. Last night we had a family dinner at the Indian restaurant, both of our immediate families gathered around to say goodbye, and even with the lingering scent of curry and everyone exchanging well wishes, I still felt……
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A New Chapter for Us All
6 Days to Go.. Six days. Six short days until Dan sets off on his big adventure to Kenya. And I’ll admit, emotionally, it still hasn’t fully hit me. Practically, though? I’ve been preparing, thinking through what this solo time at home might look like for me and for the kids. Since my “breakthrough” last…
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One Week to Goodbye: Embracing Change, Love, and Independence
7 Days to Go Well, here we are… my first blog in over five years.. In that time, I’ve started not one but two businesses (because why not make life a little busier?), Dan’s cycled through three jobs, and we’ve managed to survive a pandemic. We’ve had devastating losses and enriching gains.. The girls have…
The Bakers Adventures 